How To Heat and Warm Up Your Fleshlight

how to heat and warm a fleshlight

I have written about Fleshlight maintenance and care before so I have probably mentioned the importance of pre-heating the Fleshlight before use. That is one if not the most important thing you need to do to make your Fleshlight feel like a real vagina or close to it. Not only is it more ergonomic for your penis sensitive areas it is also the best way to maximize the pleasure you get from Fleshlight masturbation.

If you want your Fleshlight to feel as close to a real pussy, mouth or asshole you need heat it up to same temperature as the human body. When the Fleshlight is warm it feels much better then when it’s cold so when you stick your dick inside the warm Fleshlight you will be able to enjoy the texture so much more. It is much easier for your penis gland to feel every little bump, twist and turn when the Fleshlight is pre-heated. Some dudes fuck their Fleshlights so fast that the friction alone makes the sleeves warm but here are 3 easier ways to make it warm.

3 Great Ways To Heat Up A Fleshlight

Warm water bath for your Fleshlight
Simply fill up your sink with hot water. Remove the sleeve from the Fleshlight case and put it in the warm water bath. Let it soak for 5 minutes then rinse the inside of the Fleshlight with more hot water before you put it back into the case. To keep the Fleshlight from cooling off to much you can wrap the whole thing in a towel to prevent the heat from escaping. You can also use the Fleshlight while you are in the shower to keep it warm during the entire Fleshlight Flight. Using the Fleshlight is the shower also makes it way easier to clean up when you are done.

Blow your Fleshlight with a hair dryer
Using a hair dryer to heat up your Fleshlight is another effective way to make it nice and warm. All you need to do is to open up the top cap of the FL case and start blowing hot air inside of the sleeve. Just make sure that you don’t hold the mouth piece to close to the super skin material. I’m not sure what the melting point of the Fleshlight is so use the hair dryer with care. I would NOT recommend using a hot air gun that thing would probably damage your Fleshlight.

Using a hair dryer to heat your Fleshlight to body temperature is a quicker then soaking it in water and since the sleeve remains dry it will cool down slower then the water method.

Build a DIY Fleshlight Heater
If you’re a handyman or just like to come up with your own solutions you can try to build your very own Fleshlight Warmer. TantraMagnet posted his own Fleshlight heater invention on the Fleshlight forums.

TantraMagnet Fleshlight Warmer

This Fleshlight warmer contraption is actually just a Vicks personal steam inhaler with some slight modifications. Check out the video for the instructions to build your own.

Warm Fleshlights With Electronic Heating Blanket

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What is your favorite method when it comes to warming up your Fleshlight? Leave a comment below if you know of other good ways to heat up the Fleshlight. Thanks!


  1. Hi,

    I am an agent for an online talent agency. I am interested in hiring the model that is pictured at the top of this post, holding the black fleshlight. Can you provide me with the name of the modeling agency she is associated with, or where I can locate their contact information? Thank you

  2. Thanks for that
    How long does it take to achieve operating temperature?

    • Just a couple of minutes if you use warm water. If you are using a heating blanket it will probably be ready within 10-15 minutes.

  3. I just wanted to say, when I soak my fleshlight in hot water it seems to take a good 15-20 mins to get it to a temperature that equals that of a real women. Quite often I have to empty the sink and refill with more hot water meaning total prep time is 30 mins or more. While this isn’t a huge problem for me, it would be preferable for it to be faster!

    • Lately I have found that flushing the inside of the sleeve with hot tap water for a couple of minutes works just as good.

      I highly recommend heating the lube you are using too. That makes a big difference!

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